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Call for Stories Headstrong Nation


Stories Matter.

Headstrong Nation is holding a "Call for Stories".  We want to hear about your experiences as an adult living with dyslexia/LD. Stories are important.  They inspire and inform us. They influence us. We relate to them. They help us to feel connected with each other.  They don't have to be perfect, and they don't have to be finished. They are forever evolving. 

How do you manage the challenges associated with your dyslexia on a daily basis? What are your particular struggles?  Have you developed effective work-a-rounds in your career and life that you'd like to share with others?  What types of apps or assistive technology help you to thrive?  Have you discovered your unique strengths?  What keeps you going? What frustrates you? What do you need that you aren't getting?  What does success look and feel like to you?  

If you have a story to tell as an adult with dyslexia and would like to share it with the Headstrong Nation community, please contact us at info@headstrongnation.org. We may be able to feature your submission in our community blog and through our social media channels so your story will inspire others to possibly share theirs too.

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Jenna and Shannon

We recently had the opportunity to chat with super dyslexia advocates Shannon and her 11-year-old daughter Jenna about school, self-advocacy, and... snakes!

We contacted Shannon after she shared a photo of Jenna brandishing her very own dyslexia ID card—a homemade creation inspired by one of our blogposts

Originally created by Dr. John Frauenheim at the Beaumont Hospital in Michigan to help dyslexic students self-advocate, the ID cards sparked much conversation in the dyslexia community and we knew it was only a matter of time before we had DIY-ers crafting their own.

Turn on text-to-speech and ear-read along (or eye-read!) for our full interview with Shannon and Jenna.


Headstrong: Before we talk about dyslexia, we think it’s very important to discuss one of Jenna’s other passions: snakes. Jenna, how much do you know about snakes?

Jenna: A lot. I have 35 of them. 15 hatched the other day...

Headstrong: 35?! Snakes hatch? Like out of eggs?

Jenna: Yeah. And some breeds give birth live.

Headstrong: What kind of snakes do you have?

Jenna: Ball pythons. Carpet pythons. Corn snakes. King snakes. Milk snakes. Boas.

Headstrong: You have a boa!?

Jenna: I have a few. One of them is six feet long—but I can carry her. She’s really nice. Her name is Nagini. 

Headstrong: Nagini...? 

Jenna: From Harry Potter.

Headstrong: So how did you end up with all these snakes?

Jenna: I don’t know. We were told that if we kept our room clean for a month, we’d get a reptile as a pet. My big sister did it first and then my dad wanted a snake and then I wanted a snake. And then... we just kept getting more and more snakes! My favorite snake is my corn snake Tiny. 

Jenna and sisters with snakes galore

Headstrong: Is he actually tiny?

Jenna: No! He’s the biggest corn snake. Our friend who breeds them says he’s ginormous.

Headstrong: Maybe it’s time for us to give snakes a second chance! Ok, let’s talk about a different animal. Shannon, how did you find out about Headstrong?

Shannon: When Jenna was identified earlier this year with dyslexia, I did what every parent does and went looking for resources. I came across Ben Foss’s book, “The Dyslexia Empowerment Plan”—bought it, read it, took everything to heart, and set out to find the best ways to help Jenna, who had struggled for many years. She’s 11 now and has only just been identified. 

Headstrong: You learned about the dyslexia ID card from our blog. What prompted you and Jenna to make one on your own?

Shannon: Well, we’ve been encouraging Jenna to have her own voice and I thought this was a simple solution to put it into practice. She could go to school and if she had a teacher who didn’t know her, the teacher would understand why Jenna is pulling out audio books when the rest of her class is eye-reading. In this way, she could easily explain what she needed without having to be verbose.

Jenna: It also made it easier for my table when I took out a little computer and they said, “Why do you have that!?” I could hand them my ID card and say, “Hey, just read this!” It made it a lot easier.

Headstrong: So what do these cards look like and what does someone need to make the card?

Jenna: You need a printer and a computer and my mom got the doctor’s signature and the stuff from the children’s hospital and then she wrote a bunch of facts that we might use on my IEP plan.

Shannon: We took 2 pieces of paper so we had a front and a back, and made it into a 3 x 3 square. On the front we would put information about the physician, Jenna’s name, and the certification that she experiences dyslexia, which compromises reading and spelling ability. On the back we printed what we felt were the key IEP points that we wanted addressed by someone coming in to the classroom who didn’t know Jenna.

We laminated and hole-punched it, and now she has a lanyard that she can wear it on or keep in her pencil bag.

Jenna and her dyslexia ID card

Headstrong: Will you share your IEP points with us?

Jenna: Yes. My IEP says:

  • I may use audiobooks for reading (Nook / headphones).
  • Students who correct my papers are mutually agreed upon by me.
  • During all tests, please be available to read words, sentences or to paraphrase questions as needed.
  • I use a Forte (word processor and headphones) in class.
  • Allow me to skip answering / reading aloud out loud at my request. 

dyslexia card with IEP points

Headstrong: That is amazing! After you made the card, what was the next step?

Shannon: We took it to the pediatric neurologist from Children’s Hospital who had identified Jenna and explained the idea to him. He was intrigued because he has patients with other LDs (learning differences), not just dyslexia, who might benefit. He immediately signed it, and was very encouraged to see all of facts and needs from her IEP on the back.

At the school we showed it to the Special Education resource teacher who agreed that it was a very helpful idea, especially because it didn’t cost us anything! And again, that it could help students who aren’t necessarily dyslexic but who have other needs.

Headstrong: Jenna, tell us about the first time you used your ID card at school.

Jenna: It was in the of middle of the school year, and my regular teacher was gone so we had a substitute for two or three days and, well, I was nervous at first to show him the card so I asked mom to come with me. She did, but she made me talk.

Headstrong: And what did you tell him?

Jenna: I have dyslexia and here are some of the things I do. Here is the card we made so you know some of the facts. And he said, “Thank you very much for showing me this.” 

Headstrong: Well that sounds surprisingly straightforward. What was it like in class after that?

Jenna: It was easier even though my table was wondering what I was doing a few times. Sometimes I left the classroom to go to a different classroom and stuff. So I just let them read the card.

Shannon: I think it was also helpful because for a long time this year, the classroom was really kept in the dark about why Jenna does things differently. The teacher wasn’t encouraging and didn’t explain things. It wasn’t just a benefit to the teachers—the card opened up points of communication between Jenna and other students.

Headstrong: We’re curious, has anyone asked for help making their own cards?

Shannon: Not yet. As you’re aware, dyslexia is the elephant in the room that no one wants to acknowledge. It’s kept very quiet. Who else is dyslexic? Her school is not very...

Jenna: Dyslexia friendly...

Shannon: Right. We have kicked and fought our way to get her the accommodations she needed this year. Every step of the way has been a battle. Unfortunately, we have not been able to find others in this area who are dyslexic. But as we go through the journey, I have found people online and have shared the idea repeatedly, you know, this might be something that could help your child. 

Jenna: Um, I have pen-pals now who have dyslexia... and it makes a difference because I don’t care if I spell something wrong or if they spell something wrong cause I understand what they wrote.

Shannon: I think the key thing for us is that we want Jenna to feel comfortable with being dyslexic. It’s been an adventure for her. As the middle child, she’s seen one older sister fly in one direction and another fly in another direction and this year, with her identification, she’s starting to fly herself. We know how to help her now. Just like she has blonde hair and blue eyes, she has dyslexia and can embrace it.


 
Shannon and her family live in California in the Central Valley. Even though Jenna’s hair is naturally blonde, it currently has bits of pink and purple in it. Along with three other humans, Shannon and Jenna are the happy caretakers of 35 snakes and two lizards. 

Jenna and her pet snake
 

"Alex" is a finalist in the White House Student Film Festival. Good luck Alex & Mitch, and well done Westmark for helping LD students shine.

From Mitch:

For this contest, I wanted to take a different approach to the concept by making a documentary style video about my little brother, Alex. Alex goes to a school that provides tablets to the students, as a mean of education that differs from normal curriculum. 

Mayu is a middle-schooler, empowered dyslexic and one of many students who is realizing that their voice matters. Here he tells us why joining the dyselxia movement matters to him. 

The first step to being empowered is owning your story. Don't forget to watch Headstrong Founder Ben Foss and Mayu discuss how to tell your story and connect others to your experience. 

Short. Truthful. Memorable. And polished. Learn how to tell you story and connect the world to your experience as a dyslexic. 

Watch Ben, Amber, and Mayu talk discuss how to tell a good story and learn why Mayu started levitating...

Ella

We received this essay from a middle-schooler named Ella about a particularly difficult experience she had as a dyslexic. It is hard to read, but it gives us an important glimpse inside a world that many people do not understand or have chosen to forget. Ella has since gone on to become her own best advocate and is currently attending a school which specializes in dyslexia and LD identities. Keep fighting, Ella. 


I’m sitting in the back of the classroom. I raise my hand high. My teacher does not call on me. There are 48 kids in my class. Then a young girl walked into the classroom and said “Is Ella here?” I got up and went outside to her. 

There were 3 kids there. Their names were Meadow, Nigel and my best friend Emma. One of the kids in my class yelled out, “That is for retarded kids only.” I felt empty and sad. Was I retarded? “No,” I said. My face became red as all 48 kids looked at me as I walked away into another classroom.

I walked into the room and felt angry and I sat down at a desk and had to read a fluency packet. Then we had to get up to level 7 and I was on 2. 

I walked back to class and sat back down at my real desk back with all 48 kids. The teacher gave everyone a huge book. The teacher called my name. I started to read the sentence. I stumbled over words and skipped the words I could not read. I looked up and everyone stared at me with a strange look on their faces. I felt my eyes starting to water. My friend beside me said “just ignore the class.” I kept reading. Then the words became blurry then the words went dark. 

The teacher said “Sam it’s your turn.” I heard him read and he didn’t even mess up. I felt stupid. When school was over a student came up to me and said. “Why do you read so slow?” I felt my tears trying to burst out. I breathed in and out and said, “Why do you care?” 

I walked away slowly and felt upset and mad and wondered if I hurt his feelings by saying “Why do you care?” I wanted to apologize but I couldn't I was crying too much. I ran into the bathroom and sat on the ground. Then my three friends walked into the bathroom and asked me why I was crying. I lied and said because I hurt my knee. I lied because I didn’t want them to think I was dumb. I lied because I was embarrassed. I heard my mom call my name so I ran out of the bathroom pretending to look happy as we drove home to my two sisters waiting for me.

Ella is a seventh-grade student who recently shared her story with us. 

Our brains become more active when we listen to stories. Turn on text to speech and get the whole scoop here. (Of course, we've known this forever but it's nice when science catches up.)

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